Figuring Women And What They Want Out
“The great question that has never been answered and which I have not yet been able to answer despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul is, what does a woman want?”
On the whole, women are looking for something different than men; women are built differently.
They talk differently.
They think differently.
They respond differently.
They act differently.
THEY’RE NOT LOGICAL JUST BECAUSE MEN ARE
Think of masculinity as the yin and femininity as the yang; two sides of a whole.
Regardless of where we came from males and females are built to fit together like two halves of a circle.
Women respond to masculine, approachable men just like men respond to cute, feminine girls.
Women want strong men who will stand their ground and say no when they throw temper tantrums.
Why? Because it sends emotional spikes down there body that they want to feel over and over again.
Attractive women are different than other women and you need to realize and accept this in order to really achieve the results your looking for.
Beautiful women have been socially spoiled all their lives. Not entirely however, they get used, played, tricked and many times have trust issues as a result of being played so many times so don’t get me wrong here their lives are FAR from perfect and we’ll get in to this a lot more later on but I just want to skim over it.
Nonetheless they have the huge advantage being able to have any man they want pretty much (although many are too socially conditioned to take initiative and get the men they want).
These women, for the most part, have had men treat them like princesses since the age of 15 and are not looking for the “same old loser” who is going to worship them as something they are not instead of treating them like a regular person like anyone else.
When did the same old thing ever get your attention?
Now when did something unique catch your attention so well that you “just had to” show it to all your friends who showed it to all their friends.
A woman is like anything else.
When you first look at her from a guy’s perspective she is like a Rubik’s Cube but once you understand here it becomes
“Duh…of course! How could I have missed this simple thing?”
These days we are getting a far better understanding than ever before about women and attraction in general.
However most men are not taking a genuine opportunity to embrace the wealth of knowledge we have accumulated in the 21st century.
If I asked you why men think differently than women what would you tell me?
Now, how would you explain it?
Don’t scroll down. No cheaters here!
Really give it some thought and come up with an answer.
If you able to explain that women are run primarily by emotions and men are run primarily by logic then we are on good footing here.
So now let’s dig a little deeper in to this so we can fill your brain with knowledge and get you going.
Have you ever noticed that we break down attraction, love and affection in to a science while women think in terms of “true love” and “soul-mates”?
One is logical and the other is emotional. Hmm I wonder if there could be a connection there?
Women are programmed to be more cautious about who they breed with as they are capable of getting pregnant.
What A Girl Wants
The word rejection is a word I am well acquainted with and I am sure you can relate. I spent nearly 17 years being rejected by women. If you have spent decades being rejected as well, this has probably left you with a view of women that is very inaccurate.
Personally, I used to blame it all on the women – I thought they were the problem… I thought they didn’t get me.
Then one day I had what is quite possibly the world’s simplest realization – if all my friends were getting women to like them and I wasn’t it must have been something I was doing.
These women weren’t bitches by any standards so I decided to find what aspects of my personality were causing them to act bitchy or cold toward me.
Suffice to say it turned out to be a simple matter of poor and incomplete teaching which was the idea that women are attracted to jerks so act like a jerk and women will love you.
The truth is if you are a decent human being who can show a genuine interest in a woman (and you can show that you’re confident) she will be more than happy to have a conversation with you.
Remember your reality has been created as a result of you acting the same way and getting the same results.
If you are confident and change your game plan you will get different results.
I’m going to talk to you now about some of the primary personality traits that women find attractive. This doesn’t mean by any stretch of the imagination that you should put on a face when you are with a woman.
But it does however mean that you should ever make an effort to play up certain aspects of your personality and downplay others.
First of all you must understand that women do not ever want to feel like their love, caring and trust is abused or taken advantage of. This comes from a woman’s emotional drive to help, care for and nurture others. This rings particularly true for a man she is attracted to.
The first thing that women find attractive and a man, obviously is alpha behavior. As I’ve said many times before, women love a man who knows how to act out the male role because that is what they are programmed to be attracted to.
The second is a caring guy. This is not to be confused with the guy who is supplicating, needy or a pushover. The reality is that women do like to receive gifts but it should be spontaneous and selfless. You cannot appear to be wanting something from her or trying to gain her favor through neediness. Also, you want to try to make your gifts unique. Flowers and gift cards are great but will likely be forgotten the next week.
There is a problem with guys today. They have no idea that the world is nothing like the way they view it. If something is not working, you get off your ass and change it.
The third is the man who is ambitious, aggressive and willing to take risks. If you have ever heard stories about Evel Knievel, he would have women showing up outside his hotel room after a jump with their boyfriends. The girl would then tell Evel that she told her boyfriend that she would dump him if he didn’t let her sleep with Evel. That is the attraction that a risk taker can generate at its best.
You are in luck because you don’t need to risk your life to be a risk taker. Simply being unexpected and being willing to put public opinion to bed is a huge risk in our society. As a side benefit I guarantee following your feelings will make life more interesting. If you feel like going out on a whim and partying or just being out all over the place women love a man who loves all kinds of experiences.
Woman find a man with ambition very sexy. A man who is willing to defy all odds and follow his dreams. That is the true nature of a man who is in control of his life.
Women love a man who sees no walls around him. They love a man who sees opportunity in everything. She loves a man who follows his heart because she can really feel and connect with it. The reason for this is because a passionate man represents a thirst and lust for life.
What I have found is that when it all comes down to it in life, all we have is our passion and our drives to get to where we desire to be. We set standards for ourselves and will never be desired until we achieve them. An alpha male never lets things go. When he is taking breaks from his passion he starts to feel uneasy because he hasn’t achieved what he set out to do and that is time wasted.
Women are a universal passion for men (heterosexually/bisexually speaking). You may have heard a theorist who has said that women are the reason for all male achievement. The theory states that men do everything to drive to impress women. Ironically, this is what all the losers are doing who are not getting any.
You must be willing to take risks in your life. They will make you sexier to women and they will make you a more complete human being because you will learn not to fear life so much and instead start embracing it.
The reason you need to be more confident in general is because it will decide your willingness to take risks. That and how determined you get from your failures. If you are worried about what everyone thinks and you are dependent on the approval of others, it goes without saying that you are not going to risk very much.
Consider your risk as how much you are willing to give up to achieve your goals. If you stop to think about it, you will probably realize that a life of failure will be worse.
Let’s take women as an example. This is a situation where many men have no real perception of how things work. They have an idea in their head that every woman they try to talk to will shut them down miserably and see them as a guy hitting on them.
The problem is they can’t take a chance on talking to a woman and risk getting hurt. A man should not put his opportunities at risk for fear of failure because he needs to realize that the potential possibility of dating your perfect dream girl likely far outweigh the risks. You need to recognize opportunities when they’re sitting in front of you. Although this sounds like an easy task it becomes a challenge when you realize how sheltered and closed off your view of reality has become.