Most guys are confused when it comes to asking for a girl’s number. Today top-notch dating experts will be teaching you how to know when it is time to ask for a girl’s number. Let’s get started.

Vin DiCarlo Explains How To Get A Girls Number

You always want to get her number on your terms, for the same reasons I talked about in the previous question about getting physical at your place.

If you wait until SHE has to leave for some reason – it’s not going to work. She’s going to already be committed to leaving and she would look bad if she said yes. Therefore she’ll say no just to save face. You want to be proactive and get it at a time that maintains your positive first impression.

Action Jackson Advices To Exchange Numbers Within 20-30 Minutes

I started doing something new. I’ll exchange numbers with her about 20-30 minutes into the conversation. That’s usually about how long it takes where she’s hooked. Maybe after I’ll be able move her across the room.

text game advice for guys

I won’t just exchange numbers with her and then put my phone away. I’ll text something playfully teasing such as “You’re pretty cool. I don’t care what everyone says about you.” Or something like that, and the cool part about that is the next time you text her, whether it’s later that night or the next day, she’s going to remember who you are because a lot of people have the smart phones where it’s not just individual text. It is like an Instant Messenger. So she’s going to remember who you are because you’re new text is going is show up right underneath the previous text so it brings her back to that awesome time you first met and exchanged numbers.

Bill Preston’s Method For Getting A Girl’s Number

Many times, you don’t have a choice. If you are talking to girl and either her or your friends want to leave, immediately say “I loved talking to you and I’d like to continue this conversation. Here is my number” and give her something with your number on it. Other times you can say “I want to make sure that we have a chance to talk later, who knows what’s going to happen, so put your number here because I can’t wait to talk to you later, this is great.” It’s not a big deal to get a girl’s number, just don’t put pressure there. Set the frame “I want to talk to you later and see you later so put your number in here.”

Lance Mason Teaches How To Get A Girl’s Number

I only get a woman’s phone number once I have a solid plan of where we’re going to meet, when we’re going to meet, and what we’re going to do. So I don’t get a woman’s number until she’s already agreed to a date. And this is based on years of experience. Let me just tell you if you get good at this stuff and you go out and get ten numbers in one night, all you’ve done is giving yourself all this work that you need to do next week. You’re going to be calling. You’re going to be texting. You’re going to be wondering if you have any dates lined up.

I’d much rather to go out and get two rock solid dates than get 100 phone numbers. Getting phone numbers doesn’t make sense because if I’m not good enough and charming enough face to face to convince her to go out with me, what chance do I have of convincing her to go out with me by calling her on the phone or texting her? I mean, it just doesn’t make sense.

So when I get a woman’s number after we set up the date, I’ll grab her phone, put my number in and call my phone. I’ll hand her phone and say “Oh hold on while I get this.” And I’ll answer my phone: “Hey, what’s up?” I’ll look at her and say, “Hello, are you going to talk to me or what?” And she’ll pick up her phone and I’ll say, “Hey, you know, guess what? I met the coolest chick tonight.” And she’ll say “Really?” I’ll say “Yeah, she’s awesome. What have you been doing?” She’ll say “Oh yeah, I met this awesome guy.”

Then I’ll say, “It’s cool because we’re supposed to meet on a Wednesday, but I don’t know. I mean, I feel really nervous about it. I know my friends are going to make fun of me because I said I was never going to go out with a girl I met in a bar. I don’t know. I mean, should I go out with her?” She’ll say “Yeah, I think maybe you should.” And I’ll say “Really? Well, she’s really cute. I mean, she’s right here.”

I’m basically having the first call while we’re there face to face because I want to set up the date. I want to have the first call, and I want to know that she’s going to be there when we set up a date, and then when I call her later or I text her later, the first call is already out of the way.

Joseph Matthews Explains When To Ask For A Girl’s Phone Number

It’s usually best to ask for her contact information at the point where the interaction is ending. If you ask for it too early, it kind of kills it. If after five minutes you ask, “Hey, can I have your phone number?” And she’ll be like, “Oh, I don’t know, maybe.” But if things are going well and you’ve built up a little bit of trust and comfort with the girl and a little bit of rapport you can say, “Hey, you know what? You seem really cool. I’d really like to get in touch with you again. What’s best for you? Can I get your phone number? Do you text? Are you on Facebook?”

Drew Canole Says Facebook Is A Better Option Than A Phone Number

At Facebook Famous, we teach our students to first go for Facebook, because 9 tomes out of 10, it is easy to get: “Let me get your name real quick and I am adding you on my Facebook.” It just works. If they are giving you that, this is basically an agreement that they are giving you information and then I just ask for the number. I am a big fan of doing it immediately, and I truly believe in that three second rule: In three seconds, approach a girl, grab her and take her wherever you want to. And women catch onto that. It’s the leadership mentality that they are looking for, they want to be dominated. I believe in asking for the phone number immediately as well as the Facebook information.

Jordan Harbinger Says It Depends On The Situation

It depends on the situation. If you’re meeting women during the day on the subway, you’re probably never going to see that girl again because you don’t know where she works so go for it because you don’t want to wait until she has to get off the train because there’s no time.

girls giving their numbers

Basically my rule is if you’re not going to see that girl again and you don’t know how you would see her again, grab her number even if there’s almost a 99% chance she’s going to say no because it doesn’t matter because you’re never going to see her again unless you do get her phone number. So you have nothing to lose there.

Now, if you’re out at night what I like to do is I’ll be running around. I’m running the club. I’m talking to everybody that I can, and if she starts to plant herself with a group of friends or if she needs to go to the bathroom or something, I’ll say, “Listen, before I lose track of you, give me your phone number. I’ve got to go say hi to some people.” Now, that gives you plenty of room to grab the number. It doesn’t say, OK, I’m bouncing now and all I want is your phone number. But it does say that I’m interested in continuing this conversation. I’m just not sure I’m going to be able to catch up with you because I’m being super social right now. It says all the right things. Don’t wait until the end of the night. Definitely make sure that she’s actually attracted to you before getting the phone number because otherwise she’ll have no reason to give it to you in the first place.

Julian Foxx’s Method For Getting A Girl’s Number

I always like to do it earlier rather than later. A lot of time it depends upon the situation. Probably 10% of the girls I have slept with in my life, I have met when I was on the subway or public transportation in New York City. And when you are meeting a girl on a subway you may have 30 seconds or you may have 20 minutes until her stop, you just don’t know.

For that reason, I always like get her number earlier. One of my favorite techniques is to say “Oh man, you are really cool; we should totally hang out sometime.” So I am putting the ball in her court and then hopefully she’ll say something like, “Yeah we should,” and I’ll say, “Great. What are we going to do to make that happen?”

And 9 times out of 10 she is going to say, “Oh. I guess I could give you my number or something like that.” It’s great because it takes the pressure off to ask for her number and also subconsciously kind of implants the idea that she is the one who her number. In reality it’s not at all what has happened, we engineered it.