Online Dating Tips And Right Mindset For Men
So, what state of mind do you have to be in when you start Internet Dating?
Let’s start out by remembering what it was like to go through a tough time in your life.
Well, if you are like me and you’ve been through a bad breakup, you know that it’s tough to get back into the dating scene. I want you to remember what it was like when you felt vulnerable. What was going through your mind? What were you thinking? And most importantly, what were some of your behaviors? How were you coming off to people?
I’m going to guess you were depressed and very down. That made you less passionate about life. You were not focused on your mission or you did not have anything to be passionate about… You didn’t feel ALIVE!
So what happened when you tried to date women in this state of mind? Right, it didn’t work out so well.
Now, what I’m about to tell you is extremely important so pay attention!!
It is absolutely critical that you have your life together when you start dating. You should have your emotions under control and be working towards your mission in life. Why is this important?
Because, a man on a mission with goals, aspirations, and ambition is extremely attractive to the opposite sex. Having your life together and pursuing your mission will make you busy, passionate and more alive. You will feel better about yourself and people WILL notice that!
So, before you go online and write that profile, ask yourself a few questions.
1) Am I Happy?
2) Am I passionate about life?
3) Am I currently going after my mission in life?
4) Am I still hung up on another woman?
5) Am I feeling confident about myself?
6) Do I really believe in myself? Do I absolutely believe that I deserve a REALLY attractive woman?
7) Do I have any negative beliefs about myself?
8) Do I give off a really positive vibe when I’m around other people?
9) Do I love myself?
10) Do I REALLY know who I am?
Write down your answers to these questions and study them, as they will be important later on.
Now, what do I mean by finding your “Mission” in life? Well, your mission can be anything that you are passionate about. If you LOVE sailing then maybe sailing is your mission. Maybe raising your kids is your mission. Your job, (if you love it), your hobbies, your goals, all of these things can be your mission. Whatever it is, it’s important that you be PASSIONATE about it!
Finding a woman is NOT your mission if life. That’s always secondary.