If you’ve ever tried to attract a woman, then you know your success depends on your self-confidence.

The more confidence you have, the better off you’ll be! So what should you do if you lack self confidence around women? Well here are a few tips you can use to raise your self-esteem:

1. Learn To Relax

Before approaching women, put yourself in a relaxed state by paying attention to your posture and body. Then concentrate on a positive outcome from the conversation you’re about to have. If you can remove all expectations you’ll become more relaxed around women. So remind yourself that any negative outcome won’t affect your life.

2. Try Meditation And Exercises

There are certain activities (meditation, yoga, and tai-chi) which will make you more relaxed. By practicing these exercises, you’ll be able to put yourself into a positive state whenever you need it, including the times when you’re trying to pick up women. So if you’re serious about building self confidence, try one of these activities.

3. Use Your Strengths 

One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all of the qualities that make you a great person. Then whenever you’re faced with a situation where you’re not feeling confident, just recite the affirmations about your positive qualities.

By mentally reviewing your strengths, you’ll be able to quickly ramp up your levels of confidence.

4. Stay Positive At All Times

It’s widely known that guys who smile and have a positive outlook tend to attract more women

So no matter what you’re feeling inside, ALWAYS have a upbeat attitude and do your best to be a guy who women enjoy being around. What’s funny is even when you *fake* a confident personality, you’ll eventually develop this personality trait!