In this article some of the best pickup and relationship experts will be sharing their advice on how to live a healthy lifestyle that is also full of girls.

Christian Hudson On How To Live A Healthy Lifestyle

So much of it is the environment in your life and the people around you. If you have people who make you happy and you go to places where you enjoy doing stuff with these people then you will have fun.

What I’ve realized is there are a lot of places that I simply do not like to go. I have been out to nightclubs in Manhattan countless times and what I realized is I don’t actually like going to those places. They’re full of people who are pretentious and very self impressed and it’s a scene where I don’t feel utterly comfortable or where I can be myself and have fun. So I’ve started to put myself in situations where I can find other women who are just as attractive as those I meet at nightclubs, but I can be much more myself and I can enjoy myself much more.

I know that there are plenty of ways to get in the state, but what it really comes down to is putting yourself in places and in environments and around people where you naturally enjoy yourself and you can naturally be yourself, and you’re going to be your most confident and charismatic in those environments.

David Wygant Teaching The Art Of Living A Fun Life

I would just say get into yourself, and get into your day. So many guys make this mistake all the time: They go out all day looking to meet women. That’s boring. I go out just to have fun. Let’s say you go to the supermarket and you have a good time in the market because you enjoy buying food. Or you like wine and you go into a wine store and you like to pick out wine. Or you really like books and you go to a bookstore and you’re researching books all day long. Or you like to hike or bike or whatever it is – if you’re having fun all day long, you’re going to be very attractive to the opposite sex. Women are going to want to meet you because you’re walking around with a great energy. You’re walking around feeling secure. You’re walking around as the guy who people want to meet.


Go out to a bar tonight and look at the person who is having an incredible time. Look at that person and look at the amount of people who line up to speak to him. Go to the market and look at the guy who is engaging people and having fun and talking about food. Look at the way people look at him. They all want to go near him. They want a part of him. So you go out and you have the best time doing what you love and guess what? You’re going to be meeting women in those areas and you’re going to have a lot to talk about because you’ll have mutual interests. That’s how you do it.

Dean Cortez On ‘ Healthy Lifestyle’

Well, first off, when you look good, you’re going to feel good. If you’ve been wearing the same clothes, if you’ve been wearing the same hairstyle ever since college or ever since high school, it’s time to change things up. Go to an upscale men’s clothing store, talk to some of the salesgirls, tell them that you’ve decided you’re going to upgrade your look and change up your wardrobe, and get their suggestions. Let them pick out some stuff for you. It sounds simple, but it’s really so important that your look is on point and you are feeling good about what you’re wearing and the energy you are giving off.

You also want to learn some techniques, get some solid material, recruit one or two of your friends and discuss this stuff with them. Turn these guys into your wingmen and go out and have fun. Maintain that abundance mentality. Maintain the mentality, “These girls are there to be seduced. It’s just a matter of the right guy coming along and pushing their buttons the right way.” And also, don’t define a successful evening only in terms of how many girls you picked up or how many phone numbers you get.

The bottom line really is to go out and be social. Don’t get yourself all worked up and anxious, thinking, “You know, I’ve got to get laid tonight.” No, your main objective is to be social and to bring some fun into other people’s evenings tonight, and also make sure to take batting practice.

I’m being social and I’m staying warmed up at all times, so when that hot chick walks by, it is a totally natural step for me to slide over to her and to engage her in a conversation and to bring her into the fun that I’m having.

DJ Fuji Shares The Art Of Living A Fun And Healthy Lifestyle

It’s tough because what I used to do is not the same things that I still do. I used to watch stand-up comedy. Or I would talk to a friend who makes me laugh.

As you progress, what you are going to realize is you stop doing and you start being. I don’t flip on the pick-up switch anymore. I used to do that and that’s part of a learning process. It’s an easy thing for me to say after six years of busting tail in order to achieve that, right?

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But if you are not there yet and you still have to flip on the switch, I would say, hang around people who are fun. Smile. It’s a huge, huge thing. I don’t care if you’re depressed. I don’t care if you’re sad. I don’t care if you’re angry. Smile, because smiling will change your mood. It will change your psychology. And that’s one of the biggest, biggest things that I see guys not doing.

John Alanis On How To Life A Healthy And Balanced Lifestyle

I don’t teach guys about getting pumped up or any motivational stuff, or anything like that at all. My point of view has always been if you’re a guy who has learned the skill of attraction, who can make a woman feel like she wants to feel then any time you go out any woman you come in contact with is – I hate to say “lucky” – but that it’s a privilege to come in contact with you. That’s because you spend the time, energy and effort to develop those skills that very few guys have that can make her feel that. So my mindset is that whenever I step out of the door I’m attractive to all women no matter what I do or no matter what the venue is. So if I go to the gym and I see an attractive woman, I’ll go up and talk to her. I do this even if I’m in a grocery store or anywhere.

Have the attitude and the mindset of, “Yes, I developed the skills, therefore I’m attractive to women.” It’s with me 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. And I don’t just limit it to women who I may have a romantic interest in. Any woman who I come into contact with, whether it’s a waitress or the girl at the check-in counter at the gym or the old granny at the grocery store, I will do something that makes them feel a little bit of attraction because what happens is, it then becomes a natural habit. If you try and get into mindset actively before going out, women sense that. They don’t want a guy who has to go into the mindset. They want a guy who is absolutely 100% congruent with who he is. That’s an attractive man, and that’s really the most important thing to focus on.

Women can pick up on what I call “schism in consciousness” where you have one self-image and you have another one that you’e trying to act. That’s why a lot of the old pick-up stuff just doesn’t work no matter if guys executed it correctly because the women picks up on the schism. I mean, women can feel what you’re feeling inside. So when they feel 100% congruency, then yeah, you’re an attractive man because you’ve developed a skill to make her to feel like she wants to. Then all of a sudden you have the mindset all the time and women are automatically attracted to you, and as you develop this, they actually will come up and approach you first.

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It’s just not about attracting. What you find is you’re attractive to everyone, money, friends, other people and stuff like that, and so it’s a level up, but you want to work on being attractive to all things, not just to women and you’re going to find that you’re going to attract more and better women that way.