Let’s ask a few questions about your image – both how you look and how you truly perceive yourself. This important step helps you pinpoint the expectations you have for yourself and define the type of women in whom you are interested.

Why is this so important? Because how you see yourself will ultimately be the EXACT same way that others see you!

How do you feel about yourself?

Ask yourself: Do you usually feel great or lousy? Often, if you feel great about your overall image, you’ll wind up attracting women who feel great about themselves, too. Just know that the opposite is true too: you’re likely to attract similarly insecure women if that’s what you project. Asking this question, though, is an important first step to feeling better in general and toward starting to project that winning image that gets you the dates you want.

fashion tips

Do you like your wardrobe?

There are some of you who are already rolling your eyes with this question. “I don’t care about clothing, and style, and things on the outside. I want to learn how to change what’s on the inside, the important stuff.”

I hear you, and we’ll get to that shortly. But we’re going to start with the basics for one simple reason: Yes, your outside image isn’t as important as what’s on the inside, but when you feel good about what you’re presenting to the world, you’ll gain more confidence. And all the exercises we’re going to do will help you gain more confidence in different ways, and confidence is key when your trying to eliminate your fears.

So stick with me for a bit.

Do you look in your closet and look at clothes that make you feel happy and confident? (When was the last time you went shopping, by the way?) Are your clothes as old as your grandmother’s car? If so, there’s a major obstacle present in your dating life! If you need a new wardrobe, or at least a few new outfits to go out in and meet women, it’s time to do so RIGHT NOW. You need clothes that are going to make you feel attractive and feel confident. When you walk into a room, the LAST thing you should be thinking about is whether or not you’re wearing the right thing – you want to KNOW it before you step out of the door so you’re not thinking about it!!!

Here are a few very useful pointers before you go out and invest time and money into improving your wardrobe.

Go shopping with the opposite sex!

If you have no idea what looks good on you or don’t have a good idea about what’s in style, then bring someone along, preferably someone of the opposite sex. Make it a fun and flirtatious day! Beware: you might even meet a knockout, potential lover while doing so!

Make sure you buy at least two “date” outfits and three “every day” outfits

you should have a different set of clothes for each. Why? When you go on a date with someone for the first time, it’s always better to dress nicer on the date than when you first met.

Figure out when the last time was that you went shopping

it’s important to know what’s in your closet before you go fill it with the same stuff you’re trying to improve on. Remember, you’re going shopping now to change what you already have!

It’s unnecessary to spend tons of money

you don’t have to shop at the most expensive stores to find fun and sexy clothing. I’ve seen a lot of great clothes at both high-end department stores and outlet stores. You can always find great deals everywhere, but it’s important to remind yourself that you’re making an investment in your future. Plus, let your creativity run wild, and you’ll be able to come up with great outfits!

When selecting, think about what each piece of clothing will communicate

Remember, first impressions are huge, and you only have one chance to make one. What “impression” will you make?

Here’s a known truth: When you wear new, positive, expressive clothes, you’ll feel more confident, and when you enter a room, you will stand out from the crowd.