Top Dating Secrets And Advice For Men
“No matter how beautiful a woman is there is a man bored to death sleeping with her! “So If I don’t approach someone else will. Keep this in mind when I feel intimidation towards a woman”
The Alpha Male Traits
Strength of character (knowing my morals knowing what I am for and what I am against and what I am willing to do .I know where the line is and I know where I stand and I am not willing to waver.)
Integrity (having consistency with my values and morals. Don’t let anything slide, women test my integrity, remember shit tests, and the more integrity I have the more I won’t use excuses and justifications)
Rational thinking (it’s the sign of the alpha attitude, firm control over my emotions, only I can control my emotions and I am never affected by anyone.)
Self awareness (I know where my strengths and weaknesses are so I am able to make my own plan for myself, stress and anxiety that comes from uncertainty disappears.) -charismatic(being able to instill, confidence in others, able to get the others exited about my passions, have a well rounded list of interest that I do for the sake of doing and not to say that I am doing them or impress people.)
Confident (the best thing you can teach someone is confidence, it’s the acceptance of my own uniqueness, not feeling the need to be like other people, or feeling that there is something wrong with them or they do not deserve things. a confident person is just a person who is accepting of what he is and does not care what people think, he knows what he wants and he is not held back by a feeling of inadequacy)
Master communicator( can influence others, speak with conviction, assertiveness and pride, he sits back and observes people and knows how to deal with them, listening and observing are great traits to take on remember that.)
Well presented(carefully perfected style and image, knows what looks good on me, well groomed, wears items that displays my personality and I am not afraid to stand out.)
Drive( it’s the compulsion to do better, must know what motivates me and be passionate about it, won’t let others decide where I am headed know how to motivate myself, remember the rocky speech about life, I have drive I can go through life energized and happy ).
Assertive (clear and direct, and not afraid of expressing myself, not afraid to ask questions, or go after what I want, and know the difference between assertive and aggressive) -positive thinking( not afraid to fail, have a can do attitude, never ever feel sorry for myself and take the actions that are going to move me closer to what I want, stay on the course and do the best I can ).
Important Stuff For Dating
Confidence is king, it’s the most important thing, and it is one of the things that women want in a man and they really do.
Non verbal communication is the strongest attraction trigger.
My mentality should be congruent with my actions, so I want to be cocky funny! I should feel cocky funny and my body language should convey it.
The Fundamental Shifts
1- No more Mr. nice guy (come across as needy, not challenging, boring, not sexually exciting, fake. Like doing things you don’t want to do, blindly agreeing with her, accepting ride behavior and shit,try hard to impress her, acting needy, hiding my personality and acting all pg, just act honestly and never seek her approval, express my opinions and personality, I ultimately come first, active selfishness).
2- There is an abundance of women( adopting the scarcity mindset will convey neediness, she will lose interest in me, she will be in control, I will be unwilling to take risks, I will put too much emphasis on winning or losing , dwelling on missed opportunity, feeling attachment too soon, confessing feelings too soon.)(the abundance mindset, show that I am willing to walk away, the woman must know that she can mess up and if she messes up I am willing to walk out of that door. never attach excess meaning to winning or losing, winning or losing in this game does not exist. going after a girl is win win because if I get her great and if I don’t I will not live with the guilt that I wanted to but I did not try. She has to work to win me over( screen her test her remember the tests from Richard gamblers ultimate natural game).
3- I accept my sexual power and I am the prize (do not give away my power I will lose respect. How do I lose my power?? like feeling like I am doing something wrong when I am hitting on her, believing that I am going over on her if I sleep with her, allowing her to make decisions and call the shots. Except the fact that I have to make sex happen, I am the leader and I am the prize. Say things like let’s go back to my place, let’s go to my bedroom, let’s do this, let’s do that, lets, lets, lets…. I got to dominate control lead. Even if she denies me she will respect me for trying but if I do not try she will lose all respect.)