What To Do If The Girl You Are Talking To Is Losing Interest
In this post we will be teaching you all the techniques and methods that you can use to regain a girl’s interest if she is losing it.
Jordan Harbinger Offers Advice For Regaining A Girl’s Interest
Lead her physically. A lot of guys don’t do this and it’s one of the chief reasons that guys aren’t able to escalate physically because they don’t actually start touching or grab her hand or do anything like that. If you feel : “All right, I’m losing this girl” it’s a really great refresh to maybe grab her hand or have her take your arm and relocate to a different part of the bar, the club, or wherever else you might be.
If you’re outdoors during the day, that’s a different story; you might have to turn them around or move them physically a little bit. And the reason that that works is because if you’re sitting down and there is a little bit of awkward silence, if you move to a different location, there are different stimuli that are going on around you. If you are taking her by the hand physically and bringing her to the dance floor, now you don’t have to talk anymore. You can vibe physically and nonverbally. That makes things really, really easy. It sort of takes things and switches the context a little bit.
And remember if you’re in a conversation and things are going well and then there’s a little lull, she’s still there. She’s still there with you, which means that she’s still interested so you don’t have to worry about, “Uh-oh, I don’t have anything really awesome to say right now. I’m going to lose it. This is going nowhere.” You can physically lead and it will break that tension. You don’t have to be funny. You don’t have to be super entertaining. You don’t have to always have something awesome right in the back burner to throw it out there just to keep her entertained. It doesn’t have to be that way.
Julian Foxx Teaches How To Get A Girl Attracted Who Has Lost Interest In You
There are a lot of things that you can do to get that attraction back on track, but, I think the biggest thing you can do is just not give up. I think a lot of guys instinctively give up if they make a mistake but the ability to bounce back from a shitty moment or a mistake really separates men from boys when it comes to seduction. The ability to cope with mistakes and keep pushing forward is the sign of a real master.
That master is not the one who does not makes mistakes with the women; he is the one who pushes forward and does not give up. So recognize that moment, that flaw in the interaction, as an opportunity. That’s an opportunity to get better right there, simply by not giving up and pushing forward.
Stephen Nash Shares Techniques That Can Help If A Girl Is Losing Interest
If she’s not talking maybe she’s shy or maybe she’s shut down. Maybe her friends left and she’s worried. You’re going to have to hold the conversation. So things like baiting that I spoke about earlier or storytelling are great. Take the stage for a few minutes. Talk about a topic that’s interesting to women. Things like relationships. Things like adventure. Things like travel. Things that have emotion involved and tell a story about that and maybe within the story you drop in some bait, that’s one way to do it. You take the stage. You take the burden of the conversation for a few minutes. The thing you don’t want to do is start asking a bunch of questions because if she’s not interested in you, then you’re going to find out really quickly that she’s really not interested when you put the burden of the conversation on her by asking a bunch of questions.
You can also say, “Listen, I’ve got to get back to my friends. Maybe I’ll run into you later.” And you eject. You go back to your friends, you hang out with them and then maybe you notice her 15 or 20 minutes later by the bar or she’s waiting in line, you re-engage her in conversation. So you come back to her and say, “Listen, I spoke to my friend about that thing you said,” and then you kind of tie it back to what you were speaking of earlier and you re-engage her in conversation.
Women are very emotionally state specific. If she’s feeling bad right now, unless you are really, really good, you’re probably not going to change that and so the thing I always tell guys to do is just eject, talk to other people, meet other people, go back to your friends and then at some point, circle back to her and trust me, she’ll be in a completely different state of mind because that’s how women are.
Yad Advices To Be Positive Even If A Girl Is Not Responding
First of all, I’m always positive about it. If I’m not gaming them, I think they’re gaming me. Girls want to invest in the interaction. She’s just investing her time and energy to fuck me. That’s all I’m thinking and so I’ve always got a positive mindset about it, and feeling positive and giving off this positive energy always helps.
It always makes her feel relaxed and feel nice and makes her easygoing, so if there is a lull in the conversation, maybe it’s just that you’re not gaming and now she’s gaming you. So start thinking positively and don’t turn that into a horrible negative energy, “Oh my God, I need to game her now.” Because that’s probably the worst energy you could have, so just take five, take it easy, let her talk to you, let her respond, take five, no worries.
Adam Lyons Teaches What To Do If A Girl’s Interest Is Drifting
If a girl is in a conversation with you and you can tell her interest is drifting then really she’s getting bored. And if she’s getting bored, the only solution is to find something that’s interesting. People like to talk about themselves, so anytime you can shift the conversation back to her, she’s going to have a little bit more interest in what you’re talking about. Now, she’s not going to want to talk about herself blandly. She’s going to want to talk about things that she really cares about, her favorite hobby or whatever it is that she spent the last week doing or her nails or the new shoes she wants to buy, something like that.
One of the easiest ways to get the conversation back on track is to ask her about her passions in life. Now that conversation is not going to save it but it’s going to give you the topics she’s OK talking about. The minute she tells you something that she’s passionate about, you want to latch on that and hold the conversation on that topic. Because that’s something that she cares about it, therefore, that isn’t boring to her.
Alex Coulson Says It Is Ok T o Have Small Talk
You are allowed small talk. A lot of guys think that when the woman asks him, “What do you do, or where do you live, or how old are you, or what school do you go to?” They think, “Man, I’ve got to be super playful all the time. I’ve got to throw this story in and do this and move her around and spin her around, and tell these crazy and amazing stories.” But you are allowed small talk. In fact, if you don’t have small talk, it’s kind of weird. If there is no small talk, there is no rapport. It’s essential. You’ve got to answer her questions, but just don’t let it dominate the conversation.
A lot of guys, they ask some of these questions in the first 3 minutes. Don’t do this. My rule is don’t ask these within the first 3 minutes: “Where do you live? How old are you? What school do you go to?” And sometimes I don’t even ask their names within the first 3 minutes. I’ve been in conversations for about 10 or 15 minutes, and I don’t even know the girl’s name. I’m just having so much fun, and we’re just so enthralled in the conversation together that we’ve actually forgotten to ask each other’s name, and that’s really where you want to be. And then you’re like, “Oh, shit. Oh, man, I don’t even know your name. Well, what’s your name?”
So you are allowed small talk, but just don’t say it within the first 3 minutes, and don’t let it dominate the conversation. Don’t draw it out. If you ask her, “What school did you go to?” And she says, “Oh, I went to such and such school.” And you say, “Oh, yeah, my friend went there. Did you hear what happened …” Don’t spend 20 minutes talking about the school. That just starts getting boring. So what you want to do is you want to jazz it up by teasing her. Teasing her playfully, using sexual innuendos but sprinkle them in like pepper.
I have a friend and he’ll say: “Oh, so where do you live?” She says, “Oh, I live in North Sydney.” He says, “Oh, really? You know, I heard something on the news the other night. It’s kind of strange. You know, there is a girl that sort of walks up and down the highway up there wearing nothing but a trench coat, and she’s flashing onlookers and causing traffic problems.” Then he describes the flashers features and they pretty much describe the girl he is talking to. And he says, “Is it you?” That’s how he kind of ties in a tease and a little innuendo with where she lives, so it makes it a little more interesting.